Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Worth more than diamonds, worth more than rubies!

EPILOGUE: A WIFE OF NOBEL CHARACTER

10 A wife of noble character who can find? 
       She is worth far more than rubies.

 11 Her husband has full confidence in her 
       and lacks nothing of value.

 12 She brings him good, not harm, 
       all the days of her life.

 13 She selects wool and flax 
       and works with eager hands.

 14 She is like the merchant ships, 
       bringing her food from afar.

 15 She gets up while it is still dark; 
       she provides food for her family 
       and portions for her servant girls.

 16 She considers a field and buys it; 
       out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.

 17 She sets about her work vigorously; 
       her arms are strong for her tasks.

 18 She sees that her trading is profitable, 
       and her lamp does not go out at night.

 19 In her hand she holds the distaff 
       and grasps the spindle with her fingers.

 20 She opens her arms to the poor 
       and extends her hands to the needy.

 21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household; 
       for all of them are clothed in scarlet.

 22 She makes coverings for her bed; 
       she is clothed in fine linen and purple.

 23 Her husband is respected at the city gate, 
       where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.

 24 She makes linen garments and sells them, 
       and supplies the merchants with sashes.

 25 She is clothed with strength and dignity; 
       she can laugh at the days to come.

 26 She speaks with wisdom, 
       and faithful instruction is on her tongue.

 27 She watches over the affairs of her household 
       and does not eat the bread of idleness.

 28 Her children arise and call her blessed; 
       her husband also, and he praises her:

 29 "Many women do noble things, 
       but you surpass them all."

 30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; 
       but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.

 31 Give her the reward she has earned, 
       and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

                               -Proverbs 31:10-31 (NIV)




HYMN TO A GOOD WIFE
 10-31 A good woman is hard to find, 
   and worth far more than diamonds.
Her husband trusts her without reserve, 
   and never has reason to regret it.
Never spiteful, she treats him generously 
   all her life long.
She shops around for the best yarns and cottons, 
   and enjoys knitting and sewing.
She's like a trading ship that sails to faraway places 
   and brings back exotic surprises.
She's up before dawn, preparing breakfast 
   for her family and organizing her day.
She looks over a field and buys it, 
   then, with money she's put aside, plants a garden.
First thing in the morning, she dresses for work, 
   rolls up her sleeves, eager to get started.
She senses the worth of her work, 
   is in no hurry to call it quits for the day.
She's skilled in the crafts of home and hearth, 
   diligent in homemaking.
She's quick to assist anyone in need, 
   reaches out to help the poor.
She doesn't worry about her family when it snows; 
   their winter clothes are all mended and ready to wear.
She makes her own clothing, 
   and dresses in colorful linens and silks.
Her husband is greatly respected 
   when he deliberates with the city fathers.
She designs gowns and sells them, 
   brings the sweaters she knits to the dress shops.
Her clothes are well-made and elegant, 
   and she always faces tomorrow with a smile.
When she speaks she has something worthwhile to say, 
   and she always says it kindly.
She keeps an eye on everyone in her household, 
   and keeps them all busy and productive.
Her children respect and bless her; 
   her husband joins in with words of praise:
"Many women have done wonderful things, 
   but you've outclassed them all!"
Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades. 
   The woman to be admired and praised 
   is the woman who lives in the Fear-of-God.
Give her everything she deserves! 
   Festoon her life with praises!
              -Proverbs 31:10-31







     How great is it that there is biblical instruction out there for us (soon-to-be) wives! We are more precious than rubies and diamonds! Every time I read this, I feel so blessed to be a woman, especially a woman of God, daughter to the King! Is it wrong to say that this is how He feels about us? These are His "instructions," His "guidelines," if you will, of what a nobel wife is to do. I get that. But, what if this was God's profile on match.com? As if, this is what He was, and is, looking for in a mate? I'm going to be bold, and go out on a limb here and say that that's exactly what these verses are. We are, after all, his bridegroom. This is what our Heavenly Father wants from us! This is the woman He wants, and expects, me to be! He wants us to bring Him (and our husbands) good, not harm. He has full confidence in us. He wants us to speak with wisdom, and give faithful instruction. He has full confidence in us! When we tend to our husbands, our children, our homes, our churches, we give our Father everything He has ever wanted a wife to be. The covenant of marriage is one that bonds man to woman, husband to wife, in a promise of Unconditional Love. The same Unconditional, Agape Love that our God has for us. We are to love our Beloved's as Christ loved the church. Christ died for the church, the body of Christ. In that same love, Christ didn't just die for the church, he died for the rest of the world. Unconditional Love. And this is how we are to love our husbands. I am so incredibly in love with the man that I will soon call my husband, and I'm so grateful to God that He answered my many prayers for Daniel, but honestly, loving another person the same way the Jesus loves us is hard. But so worth it. I pray everyday that I will be the wife God has asked for in Proverbs 31. I know I can be, He has full confidence in me! 

28 Her children arise and call her blessed; 
       her husband also, and he praises her:
 29 "Many women do noble things, 
       but you surpass them all."


He has full confidence in me!